se strategies order become rational process becoming rational ca n't irrational process makes sense 's deep performative contradiction processes make us rational included definition rationality processes 've pointing yeah would say outside propositional um ways mystic tries point transformation um may performative may evocative maybe um whether 's mean see see happening poetry see happening art see see happening way live forth things would include well part much much mean know child adult adult sage know know proverb growing n't know 's still around know uh children pay attention much say right 're mot 're internalizing comprehensive model procedural perspectival participatory 're identifying 're getting meta perspectival ability central wisdom internalizing perspective catch skills catch points view going much profound um propositional admonitions admonitions n't spoken n't matter 'm saying know know 's much say therefore uh 's much likely mystic going going convey x exemplification rather pure explanation fact 're going tailor explanations constantly service provocative ex exemplification 're going engaging kind performative contradiction yes yeah think think think 's true think think also stand